- Apr 11, 2011
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I would not give the monster any attention, just report him.
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I would not give the monster any attention, just report him.
I have 2 friends that are law enforcement and do this kind of work protecting kids. If you have any info on this guy, facebook accounts, Facebook groups, instagram, email addresses, address etc. I will get this to him and make sure he puts this guy on the watch list if there is nothing actionable, or get him if there is.I saw that too, and it's disgusting. Report him to the police or FBI.
I have 2 friends that are law enforcement and do this kind of work protecting kids. If you have any info on this guy, facebook accounts, Facebook groups, instagram, email addresses, address etc. I will get this to him and make sure he puts this guy on the watch list if there is nothing actionable, or get him if there is.
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These were going around on twitter more of his comments.. this honestly makes me feel sick
The FBI has an office in Ottawa, so contacting them might do the trick.It's been a while since I took a cybercrime class, but I think the FBI could theoretically get involved since the children in question are not (I'm assuming, anyway) Canadian citizens.
I submitted my concern directly to the FBI. Hopefully there is some follow-up between agencies he has been reported to.The FBI has an office in Ottawa, so contacting them might do the trick.
I can't shimmy this enough. And for every oh so obvious creeper like this guy there are 100s of others on the down low. Just because they are following "other people you know" does not make them safe.I will say that as sick as he is, he is not wrong when he says "These girls are set up as business by their parents and many start training at around age 5 or so". Any parent who runs any type of social media page for their child should look very long and hard at that statement as they are responsible for promoting their kid to this type of individual. No one "normal" really cares what your kid is doing or selling - the only attention you are getting is from this guy and others like him. Is that what you want for your child?
I can't shimmy this enough. And for every oh so obvious creeper like this guy there are 100s of others on the down low. Just because they are following "other people you know" does not make them safe.
Yeah, but by that logic you shouldn’t even let your kids outside lest some pervert with an impulse control problem sees them. You really should be able to post pics of your kids doing what they love without some pasty, bloated jackhole objectifying them. It’s kind of victim-blamey to suggest otherwise... along the lines of, “Well ladies, if you don’t want to be assaulted then don’t go to parties.” He was the one who crossed the line; it was his fault he made the obscene remarks about the girl, NOT the girl’s fault or the fault of her parents. They were just doing what others do every day: posting pics on social media. They shouldn’t be punished for it because their daughter loves cheer.
And unfortunately you’re right about the creeps; they will always be out there. But it’s their responsibility to check their behavior and be decent people, not the responsibility of their victims to alter their lives so as not to “tempt” them. No one should have to live their lives in such a way.
And also, even if parents do set up their kids as a “business,” so what? Does that make them fair game for sickos? Of course not. This guy offered that excuse right around the time he said, “Well she’s clearly gone through puberty so it’s cool guys.” This guy had an unbelievable sense of entitlement and no sense of responsibility. He never once apologized. He just kept going on about how her parents posted the pic of their adolescent daughter in her cheer uniform, so clearly they were all asking for it. That’s what rapists and sociopaths say, and that’s what he is. He was in the wrong here, nobody else.
Yeah, but by that logic you shouldn’t even let your kids outside lest some pervert with an impulse control problem sees them. You really should be able to post pics of your kids doing what they love without some pasty, bloated jackhole objectifying them. It’s kind of victim-blamey to suggest otherwise... along the lines of, “Well ladies, if you don’t want to be assaulted then don’t go to parties.” He was the one who crossed the line; it was his fault he made the obscene remarks about the girl, NOT the girl’s fault or the fault of her parents. They were just doing what others do every day: posting pics on social media. They shouldn’t be punished for it because their daughter loves cheer.
And unfortunately you’re right about the creeps; they will always be out there. But it’s their responsibility to check their behavior and be decent people, not the responsibility of their victims to alter their lives so as not to “tempt” them. No one should have to live their lives in such a way.
And also, even if parents do set up their kids as a “business,” so what? Does that make them fair game for sickos? Of course not. This guy offered that excuse right around the time he said, “Well she’s clearly gone through puberty so it’s cool guys.” This guy had an unbelievable sense of entitlement and no sense of responsibility. He never once apologized. He just kept going on about how her parents posted the pic of their adolescent daughter in her cheer uniform, so clearly they were all asking for it. That’s what rapists and sociopaths say, and that’s what he is. He was in the wrong here, nobody else.
IMO - this isn’t the same as a girl going to a party wearing a skirt.
It’s not victim blaming by saying the parents should take responsibility. Maybe it’s just me but when my daughter is 6 years old I will NOT be posting pictures or videos of her on public social media accounts. It’s no secret there are parents running accounts for their children to become “cheerlebrities”. I’ve seen 7 year olds on my explore page on instgeam promoting hairspray and I don’t even follow cheer accounts on instagram, it’s just from my following/followers and having mutual friends.
Predators will always exist with or without social media and publicity, but putting the accounts on private and heavily monitoring them will allow room for a little more safety.