- Jun 17, 2024
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I’m seriously considering quitting cheer because I’m having trouble with one of the girls who also just happens to be my side base. I’m going into my sophomore year of HS cheer and I’ve delt with this girl since we cheered together in 8th grade. She gets mad at me just me for the tiniest things. We just had a 2 day stunt camp and it was longs hours in a gym with no AC so all of us were dying. As we were at that camp she made rude gestures and faces at me when we didn’t hit a new stunt even after the first couple trys. The last hour I had a raging headache and couldn’t remember the counts and she yelled at me and our coach made us do it again which made her yell at me in counting form on our next go. I had trouble with her last year because we were the bracing group for the pyramid and I would step in to pull up weight to save their wrists ( like a good backspot should) and she would stomp on my foot and kick me even though I wasn’t really blocking her or doing anything I wasn’t supposed to. She’s kinda making my life a living hell and I don’t think I can deal with another season of this. I told my coach last year and she yelled at her and then she shut up about it for a little and then after the season ended it got even worse. Our head coach just had a baby so she’s not really at many practices it’s just one of the team moms that helps us manage things and favorites the girl that bullies me. I feel bad quitting because I’ve already been given a spot on the comp team which a lot of girls wanted. But one of my friends who subs in to be the main base sometimes and otherwise is just spotting has seen it too and she agrees that it’s very unkind of her to do that. So what do you think? Should I try and talk to my coaches or talk to the girl? Or something totally different. (If you read all this thank you so much)