- Apr 4, 2014
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I ask the question because i have been the coach for two years with the following results...
Year 1 - i allowed the teams to vote and the Varsity team ended up a popularity contest and the "captains" did nothing but complain to me that the girls didn't listen and the "others" complained the captains did nothing but i told them when i let them pick that they had to keep whoever they picked and deal with it.
Year 2 - i selected captains because the way i did it the first year did not work. Everything was fine on JV but for Varsity only two of the three captains helped (i really had three to make sure there was a senior too) and three games before the end of the year some of the senior girls didn't like one of the captain choices so their parents complained to principal and the pricinpal wanted me to announce that girl as an additional captain. I refused to do that and "fired" all of the captains to make the principal happy. That also caused the principal to make me change everything else the girls didn't like. I did that and then the girls weren't happy with the new way so they went back and complained that it wasn't any fun so the principal made me undo the "new" changes and let them do whatever they wanted at the games (i.e. where to stand, who called cheers, etc). Needless to say our last three games we looked crappy and hardly did any cheers. Those senior girls then had to the nerve to post on social media that the last games of their senior year were ruined because of the way i ran things...Really because things were running just fine all season until you complained about me.
This year i am NOT going to have captains but what i am considering is having the 5 senior girls that have cheered all 3 previous years become team "leaders"....what do you think, is this a good idea?
Year 1 - i allowed the teams to vote and the Varsity team ended up a popularity contest and the "captains" did nothing but complain to me that the girls didn't listen and the "others" complained the captains did nothing but i told them when i let them pick that they had to keep whoever they picked and deal with it.
Year 2 - i selected captains because the way i did it the first year did not work. Everything was fine on JV but for Varsity only two of the three captains helped (i really had three to make sure there was a senior too) and three games before the end of the year some of the senior girls didn't like one of the captain choices so their parents complained to principal and the pricinpal wanted me to announce that girl as an additional captain. I refused to do that and "fired" all of the captains to make the principal happy. That also caused the principal to make me change everything else the girls didn't like. I did that and then the girls weren't happy with the new way so they went back and complained that it wasn't any fun so the principal made me undo the "new" changes and let them do whatever they wanted at the games (i.e. where to stand, who called cheers, etc). Needless to say our last three games we looked crappy and hardly did any cheers. Those senior girls then had to the nerve to post on social media that the last games of their senior year were ruined because of the way i ran things...Really because things were running just fine all season until you complained about me.
This year i am NOT going to have captains but what i am considering is having the 5 senior girls that have cheered all 3 previous years become team "leaders"....what do you think, is this a good idea?