- Dec 14, 2009
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this is absolutely terrible! from what i can see in your avatar you daughter is a beautiful girl and is FAR from fat! don't let anyone ever tell her otherwise. people who have the nerve to tell this to someone disgust me beyond belief they have no idea the damage they can cause. tell your daughter everyday how amazing she looks and that she is NOT fat. i wish someone would have been there to tell me this. my anorexia was brought on by myself and the distorted image i saw when i looked in the mirror but the people that are anorexic because of people telling them they are fat, i feel worse for them then i do for myself. please make sure your daughter knows that she is beautiful just the way she is.That is exactly what happened to my cp! She was on a youth 3 team and her bases were always calling her fat(both by the way outweighed her by 20-30 lbs) and every time she would come out of a stunt at practice they would whine she was too heavy. Finally they dropped her on her face from a full extension and did not attempt to catch her! I hit the roof. She came off the mat and said they did it on purpose because she was too heavy. I went to the coaches and begged them to take her the stunt group and even told them I did not care if she did not fly on that team. I had to take my cp to the dr so he could tell her that she was not fat that she was actually in the 50% for height and weight and that she also has little to no body fat! People need to teach their kids that calling people fat can do permanent damage! My 9 year old is always talking about her weight and it makes me sad.