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To give you some background information my primary background experience is Dance, and since 2013 I have had a strong interest in Cheerleading, but was too old to sign up for any all star teams. I do have scholastic, and youth training experience, (one season in youth around 12 years old, and middle school, and high school cheer experience for two seasons each) but I know that is not enough for all star. Here's what I have done so far
1. Contacted local all star gyms to ask if I can put in volunteer hours to gain more experience under my belt before deciding if coaching cheer was something I truly wanted to do, and they all wrote back saying they didn't need any help.
2. Contacted local middle schools, and high schools.... all said the same thing.
3. I found an AYC program, and got certified, and became an assistant coach, but many parents are upset with that. I give them no reason not to trust me, and I don't work with stunts, or tumbling. I basically just clean, and create dance routines since that is my primary experience. I now feel like I have to quit coaching cheerleading all together because the parents are so upset with me being so inexperienced in cheerleading. We all have to start some where right ?
I originally thought I made a good choice starting off at the youth rec league level. Most aspiring cheer coaches with little to no cheer experience like my self would have gone off to try and start their own all star program putting other aspiring cheerleaders in danger. I guess I was wrong, and I'm really at lost about what to do.
Being that dance is my primary background, including having professional experience I know all about injuries, and how easily/quickly they can occur. Safety is my top priority. I'm just upset with the fact that these parents aren't willing to give me a chance. Especially when I don't give them a reason not to "like me" as a coach, or think I'm a "bad" coach. The kids love me, the head coach loves me, but the parents hate me. Anyone have any advice on this?
We have a fundraising day tomorrow, and I have to face these parents. I just need to know what to tell them to ensure that those kids safety is my top interest, and I would not have them do anything they don't feel comfortable with, or I feel not ready for in the event I do need to run a full practice one day, etc.
Thank you in advance
PS: I"m sorry for my poor grammar I have never been good with it please forgive me!
To give you some background information my primary background experience is Dance, and since 2013 I have had a strong interest in Cheerleading, but was too old to sign up for any all star teams. I do have scholastic, and youth training experience, (one season in youth around 12 years old, and middle school, and high school cheer experience for two seasons each) but I know that is not enough for all star. Here's what I have done so far
1. Contacted local all star gyms to ask if I can put in volunteer hours to gain more experience under my belt before deciding if coaching cheer was something I truly wanted to do, and they all wrote back saying they didn't need any help.
2. Contacted local middle schools, and high schools.... all said the same thing.
3. I found an AYC program, and got certified, and became an assistant coach, but many parents are upset with that. I give them no reason not to trust me, and I don't work with stunts, or tumbling. I basically just clean, and create dance routines since that is my primary experience. I now feel like I have to quit coaching cheerleading all together because the parents are so upset with me being so inexperienced in cheerleading. We all have to start some where right ?
I originally thought I made a good choice starting off at the youth rec league level. Most aspiring cheer coaches with little to no cheer experience like my self would have gone off to try and start their own all star program putting other aspiring cheerleaders in danger. I guess I was wrong, and I'm really at lost about what to do.
Being that dance is my primary background, including having professional experience I know all about injuries, and how easily/quickly they can occur. Safety is my top priority. I'm just upset with the fact that these parents aren't willing to give me a chance. Especially when I don't give them a reason not to "like me" as a coach, or think I'm a "bad" coach. The kids love me, the head coach loves me, but the parents hate me. Anyone have any advice on this?
We have a fundraising day tomorrow, and I have to face these parents. I just need to know what to tell them to ensure that those kids safety is my top interest, and I would not have them do anything they don't feel comfortable with, or I feel not ready for in the event I do need to run a full practice one day, etc.
Thank you in advance
PS: I"m sorry for my poor grammar I have never been good with it please forgive me!