justpeachy
Cheer Parent
- Mar 26, 2010
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So if Suzy is being moved or replaced:
The right way - You have warned her privately and told the parent. She's prepared so one day you pull her aside and tell her that this week is her last week on J2. She is sad but she was warned. You tell her teammates if they ask, that she is needed on J1.
The emotional terrorism way - You constantly are threatening in front of the team. You make it so that the team feels ok being like "Yeah Suzy quit being such a baby and throw it." One day at a practice you yell "That's it, you're moving to J1." Everyone is like "oh snap no one wants to be on J1." Kid is hurt and embarrassed.
What if a kid who's been blocking skills for a month is replaced mid competition for not performing them? Anyone here feel like that might be classified as emotional terrorism?
Asking for a friend.