- Apr 27, 2010
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I think it's the same as anything a child shows a passion for and an inkling more than just average talent at. I see no problems with a nudge big or small. While they are out there, many ppl just automatically assume someone who is talented is just naturally that way. When in reality a great deal of those ppl just worked their butts off.
You can't automatically just put the onus on parents assuming they are super pushy and demanding. In several cases I'm sure the kids just want to get better, want to win, etc. But you have to remember these are kids. There's a reason why parents make decisions. At times make kids do things they don't want to do. Getting their school work done, going to bed early, eating healthy.....kids fight and complain, but parents know it's best for them.
So for those kids who want to excel, they may not quite get what it takes to get there. It may appear that the parents are just there for themselves, dragging the kids to open gyms or privates, but what they may really be doing is just enabling kids with the tools they need to succeed. So when it comes time to accepting that trophy/jacket/banner...they're going to look back and realize it was all worth it because THAT is what got them there.
You can't automatically just put the onus on parents assuming they are super pushy and demanding. In several cases I'm sure the kids just want to get better, want to win, etc. But you have to remember these are kids. There's a reason why parents make decisions. At times make kids do things they don't want to do. Getting their school work done, going to bed early, eating healthy.....kids fight and complain, but parents know it's best for them.
So for those kids who want to excel, they may not quite get what it takes to get there. It may appear that the parents are just there for themselves, dragging the kids to open gyms or privates, but what they may really be doing is just enabling kids with the tools they need to succeed. So when it comes time to accepting that trophy/jacket/banner...they're going to look back and realize it was all worth it because THAT is what got them there.