I feel that I am loyal to both gyms. They are very different, one small and one large. Also since I had belonged to one for so long with my older daughter I have developed many friendships that are very quality and long-lasting. In fact they were supportive of my other daughters transition. After all if you know you can't offer something she needs, isn't it appropriate to support them to get what they need? Both of my daughters have lots of love and support from eachother and each others gyms. They take clinics at each others gyms, and display great friendship and commeradary. But maybe that is because that is what I do. I love all different gyms, I just enjoy watching talent from everywhere. It's just so exciting and entertaining. Both of my daughters are welcomed in each others cheer gyms by staff and parents and cheerleaders as well. These kids have friends and families all over the country. I could be wrong but I think it's commedable that these kids an display better humanity skills than most adults. I would rather display the iPromise, a loyalty to the sport. My kids wear all different gym t-shirts as well as all of their friends. Support the industry as a whole. Be the best you can be for yourself, not to your "rival". We don't even use the word rival, competitor maybe. But again, there is a big difference between our two gyms, so maybe that's why it doesn't seem that way to me, they are just different. :)