People were talking about parents wanting skills FOR their kids a few pages back.
In privates, you can totally tell which kids WANT the skills for themselves, and which kids are doing the private just because MOM/DAD says they want Suzy to have a full in time for evals.
Those are the ones who whine, complain, bail, cry, are late walking in, and generally waste time. They don't actually CARE if they get a full. They are FINE on Senior 4. It's MOM who wants her on Level 5 next season. They look like they'd rather chew glass than tumble EVERY time they walk in.
I've stopped a private after repeated "I don't really want to do this" half-attempt drills and asked kids before "Why are you here?"
Sometimes, they'll say "Because I want my full." There are others (especially kids with a little less filter) who will say "My mom says I HAVE to get my full by April so I can be on Level 5 at _________."
Younger ones are the best because they'll just flat out tell the truth and say "My mom said I have to get my BHS or I can't cheer next year."
Those are my fave answers to "Why are we doing this?"
"Because my mom said she's not paying for cheer if I don't move up to Level 3."
"Because my mom said I can't get the new iPhone until I get my standing tuck back."
"Because if I don't get my tuck, my mom said she's not getting me new Uggs."
Oop.