I have personally known several girls with gorgeous flying, tumbling, cheer, and game day skills who were told they were to big to fly at Kentucky. Thy would not even consider them due solely to their size. They were not big ; about 5'2 and right under 100 pounds.
Certain schools look at size first. I think it is kinder to be honest about this. My CP will not fit the Kentucky mold/size, but there are many other great Colleges with strong Cheer, academics, and nursing programs that she would be a great fit for. I want to set her up for success.