I am not trying to be rude, but why does your little birdie mean that what she is saying isn't true? I hate her accusations, for the record, and think she went overboard,not to mention the fact that she didn't disclose her relation to the gym. But being dissatisfied doesn't make someone a liar. I guess I am truly trying to understand what the level of evidence is here? Dylan's dad didn't present his full name at first, was prevented from providing public links, which were the only real evidence he was who he said he was. Is it that the Fierceboard staff are verifying info behind the scenes? Is it just in the statements of the poster? Or is there some sort of inside info, that makes it so a poster is invalid? I don't necessarily believe this poster, but am trying to figure out how to tell when someone's grievances will be disallowed?