I was in a sorority and cheered in college. It was hard but worth it to me. Our coach hated sororities so it was known that you don't miss any cheer event for a sorority event. The sorority was great about working with us (there were about 8 cheerleaders in my sorority my first year, even more my second.) I went through recruitment freshman year, and it was the 2nd or 3rd week of school, so right during the start of football season, pep rallies, and pr events.
I won't lie it was hard and I missed a lot of sorority events. I missed visiting a lot of houses during recruitment because of practice, and would literally run to the house parties (where you get to know them) after practice in my cheer clothes. It was odd being in practice clothes, when everyone else was dressed up, but like I said the sororities knew why and were very understanding. Our rho chi's (some call them phi chi's - the girls that led recruitment week) we're great with working with us too, they made sure we visited the houses we were interested in, and missed the ones we weren't interested in. Once in my sorority I missed every new member meeting but 2 because of practice conflicts. Myself and the other girls that cheered had private meetings to keep us caught up. The first semester was the hardest, because there were so many conflicts, I barely knew anyone in my pledge class outside of the other cheerleaders. After initiation and becoming an active though the meeting times were later and there weren't as many conflicts so I really got to feel like a part of the sorority more. The beginning was the hardest but it got easier as I learned to juggle and the conflicts weren't as many. You have to stay on top of your grades though, because you are juggling a lot! One thing to think about is when the sorority has meetings. Mine met on Monday nights, we practiced until 6 on Mondays, so it was always a rush to get there. ALL of the other sororities on our campus met on Sunday nights and I would have never had a conflict, however none of those sororities are the one that I wanted!