Here's a real confession, and I was here the day this board started.
I cringe a little bit when people ask a question and people say use the search bar in a rude way. It doesn't bother me if it's said in a helpful manner, but when it's meant to be rude it makes me cringe. Everyone doesn't "live" here and some people are new, and I'm afraid they get scared off when people are rude to them. Usually the thread turns into an OMG Becky, I can't believe how she didn't even try the search bar for 2 pages. It makes us look mean and rude and unhelpful and perpetuates the misconception that cheerleaders are snotty brats.
This website is overwhelming, there are a lot of sections, forums, and pictures, I sometimes have a hard time navigating and I've been here since day one.