I'd shimmy you 1,346 times if I could. I think people, in general, get their feelings hurt first (about lots of things, where their kid is in a routine, why the coach called them out rather than Suzy, hating on a forward roll) before they ever consider the source and their motivation behind saying it. Stepping back, taking a breath and considering WHY it was said could save a great deal of heartache if people would count to ten and think before they fire back......which is why twitter is a cesspool of never ending drama.