Right. I don't want to be negative nancy here... but today it appears he posted before the gym itself did and I just pictured my kid finding out a teammate/old friend/friendly competitor had passed by a stranger on twitter before someone was able to tell them privately, for them to process it with an adult and in their own time.
I guess I just hope he has permission, that's all.
It's not my preference either and I think it's a fair criticism.
If I were connected to a person who had passed, theres a million reasons I wouldn't want to see it on social media in general like:
- There are things I'd like to handle privately and wouldn't want to see on social media .
- I wouldn't want condolences from people who I didn't know/didn't know them.
- I wouldn't want to see someone tweeting about it for profit/for sympathy/for "letting others know"/etc when they didn't know them. (Especially from someone I do not respect.)
- I wouldn't want it posted on a platform where people I don't know can publically speculate on what happened.
- What you said, if I was a parent, I'd want my child to find out through me or someone close and I'd want to be able to be there for them to talk about it without the social media part happening. And if I were a friend, I'd want to find out from a coach, another friend, gym owner, team mate, family memeber, etc - not by seeing it retweeted with a collection of emojis from people I did not know.
Maybe it's just because I'm a private person and losing someone is a sad and personal thing. Losing a child comes with a whole other array of emotions for everyone involved at all ages. If it HAD to be made public, I would ask the reporting outlet to wait a day or so, and would hope they'd link to a post written by the family - or from the gym if it was cheer related.
I know the legitimate news outlets try their best to keep names of people who have been killed/who have passed away out of the media until the family members are told. It'd be nice to see the same level of respect out of unofficial news outlets too.
Just my unwanted two cents.