@coachsara1031 first I'd like to pass on that you may not get everyone to empathize with when you say "I hate parents" There are a bunch on here who are happy to discuss things with you, but maybe not so much when you hate them.
As many have commented I understand your frustration and pushy parents are a well discussed topic here. Try searching form some of the venting threads.
As a parent, and someone who has been in the military a long time, this subject for me always comes down to credibility, understood expecations, and leadership.
Credibility - Everyone wants to know you are acting in the best interest of the kids and the team. If your actions are based on that and you have the support of the gym owners, you know you can stand up for and defend all the decisions you make. Over time even the most resistant people should realize that your coaching is making the team better.
Understood Expectations - communicating the direction you are taking the team, acceptable behavior from yourself (good leaders always lead by example), athletes and parents and avenues to take concerens in a healthy manner can all set the tone for how everyone behaves and what your consequences will be if they don't. Try leaving practices open, but letting the parents know you will close them if THEY abuse their role in supporting the team. That way if you do close practices, it is based on their decision, not yours. You just followed through with the consequence. (just an example).
Leadership - Here's the tricky part. Anyone can manage people, it takes a leader to get the best out them. How you communicate your expecations, manage team decisions, discipline and reward will all play a major factor in your success, even if the best policies are in place.
Hope some of this makes sense and helps. Contact
@Weezy for access in the coaches section and happy posting.
