Love this topic! :) I applied to 8 schools I believe..majority of them were gigantic like Central Florida, NC State, Clemson, and a few others. However, I actually ended up at a smaller, and relatively new University in Newport News, VA that is capped at 5,000. My top 2 came down to CNU-Christopher Newport University & UCF..you cannot compare the two at all! haha It really depends what you "want" out of college. Personally, I value a small class size where the professors know your name and are very approachable etc. I had one class with 12 students in it and it was the best class I have ever taken! I am also still involved with athletics and even as a freshman, I feel "a part" of the school. I also love being able to be max 10min walking distance from everywhere on campus!! :) I feel safe walking around at night on campus and the CNU campus is very close knit-we have a well-known courtesy policy which includes saying hi and holding doors for everyone :) Some people don't like this policy or don't like running into people they know every so often, therefore maybe a smaller school isn't to your liking.
In juxtapose, at UCF I most likely would not have been able to cheer..and I would have been just a number in the classroom and most likely in the student body as well. However, there are times I wish football games/school spirit were more intense etc. Although the campus is much bigger than CNU, I absolutely fell in love with it (in a different way). Anyways, my advice would be to visit each school and make a pro/con list about each. In your case since you applied to so many maybe make a list of your top 5-7 after you hear back and then visit those select schools before making a final decision. My school visits had a HUGE impact on my decision process..I actually did my visits prior to senior year and after visiting my "number 1 choice", I didn't even apply...visiting the school and feeling the vibe of a large/small campus will be very helpful!!
Good luck!!