lacking empathy? Perhaps I lack it because I'm driven to succeed and excel no matter what it takes. I don't know about where you guys are from, but around here real sports have real requirements when it comes to making a "travel" team. Whether it be soccer, volleyball, softball, baseball, lacrosse, or field hockey, EVERY single "travel" team has cuts. If you don't meet the skill requirement, you don't make the team. It's as simple as that. Nobody is excluding them from taking a tumbling and stunting class at the gym. Just like nobody is preventing me from taking a volleyball class to learn to play a sport I've never played before since I so desperately need to do it (relating back to everyone's wonderful examples). At 14+ years old, you should be able to take critique and understand what set skills are. And more importantly, you should understand why you don't meet them. Like the saying goes, you can always teach an old dog new tricks. If they want it as bad as you guys make it out to be, they'll learn it. Trust me on that one. And if they don't? Well maybe that's the start of the life lesson that sometimes, no matter what people tell you, your best will just never be good enough. It's harsh, but it's the truth. Every other sport let's their kids learn it, why can't we?
It is absolutely unfair for you to assume that just because a cheerleader cannot obtain a new skill in a short amount of time (2 months), that they are not driven to succeed and excel no matter what. Even if a 14+ year old athlete can, as you said, take critique, understand the needed skills of level 2, and why they do not meet them, they may still struggle with getting to that point. Over my ten year cheerleading career, I have known many driven cheerleaders who excel in every aspect of their lives. Despite that, I've seen those girls still not be able to get a certain tumble skill after years of training, myself included. Sometimes you can be an otherwise well-rounded athlete, but still struggle in an area such as tumbling, especially for the older ones who did not achieve these skills at a young age. Should coaches decide that since an athlete has been working on, say their tuck for 2 years that they shouldn't still be allowed to cheer on level 2?
Unfortunately, life isn't always as easy as, if you want it bad enough, you'll learn it. If that were truly the case, the industry would have more high level athletes because I promise, there are hundreds to thousands of hard-working cheerleaders who want a skill so bad, but will never achieve it, no matter how hard they work. And while I agree that a valuable life lesson to be learned is that sometimes you give something your all, and it still isn't enough, I don't think the message of, "no matter what people tell you, your best will just
never be good enough," is an appropriate way of describing that phenomena. That is not always the case when you're truly giving something 110%. I believe that cheerleading will certainly teach athletes lessons along the way, but I disagree that discouragement of never being good enough is going to make things much better. What makes cheerleading so wonderful is that so many people can participate in a sport they level. From pre-kindergarteners, to school-aged children, athletes with special needs, and even parent teams every now and then. No matter what the level, teams of all levels in the industry can cheer each other on. I would hope that a coach would not turn away a group of girls who love this sport like everyone else. After all, more often I've met lower level athletes with more passion and commitment for this sport than level 4's and 5's. I hope the USASF will continue to
encourage athletes of all levels, not
discourage them.