Here is my peeve: as a parent, your attitude should never be negative. Sure, sometimes things can happen that you don't agree with, etc., but my philosophy is that if your child is not complaining, you shouldn't be! I believe a parent's role is to support and encourage their child and the gym. If things are so bad that you have to constantly complain, go to another gym. I can't stand obnoxious parents who don't let the coaches coach. The coaches are the ones who should know what it takes to win at competition and also the limitations/abilities of those on their teams. It is not up to the parents in the viewing area to constantly analyze everything that is going on and then harass the coaches about it. Be there for your child, support them, enjoy being a part of cheer and your role as a cheer parent. Don't ruin the experience for everyone else. Enough said.