@catlady I can see that your glasses are not rose colored but you are clearly wearing some.
The very reason this industry is allowed to carry on the way it does is because it is marketing to the kids, not the parents. They want to be at THAT gym, on THAT team, or get THAT bow, uniform, shoe, go to THAT competition. Don't rack the boat mom or dad, or your child will be moved to the back or not selected/kicked off of THAT team.
Missing in all of this is a viable competitive system, standardized and unwavering judging, coaching, and safety standards. I would hope that would matter to any parent of a child participating in this youth activity being run by this industry (I won't call it a sport on purpose for this post).