The gym is now in question because we didn't like the way a (non-regular) poster replied? This is my concern. We all know this is an emotionally charged topic. For just a minute, we should put ourselves in their shoes and think about what they might be feeling. No one has a problem with "mama bears" in other scenarios. And I feel like that's what happened here. Just like parents get protective and defensive of their kids, gym owners feel the same way about their programs. I could do without the snarky replies too. But this isn't like the 3 year old bhs mama that didn't want to hear good advice. This is an otherwise nice group of people that suddenly got pushed in front of a Fierceboard firing squad. It's probably more than a little upsetting to them. So I'm trying really hard to give them the benefit of the doubt. Because I DO respect their gym and in saying so then I have to put that respect into practice and try to understand and see things from their perspective.
When I stumbled on this thread I got an oogie feeling because this just doesn't quite sound right. Besides feeling like this is a veiled attempt to discredit a possible Summit contender early on (later, if they win people will surely remember this and be salty), I also feel weird for the following reasons (prepare yourselves for a
@Just-a-Mom list ;) ) -
1. If anyone here is facing accusations of sandbagging because they have athletes with higher level skills crossing over to any of their teams, then we all need to get in line for questioning. Every gym has kids on teams with higher level skills than what they perform in every routine.
2. It all sounds dangerously presumptuous. No one owes anyone any explanations here and Imo they shouldn't have replied to any questions at all. We can't pretend to know all the details of why any kid is on any team in any gym. And we can ask all we want but not one gym owner owes anyone any explanations about their teams levels. It's a personal decision made by the experts employed in that gyms gym. And not every gym owner can give a well-thought out
@BlueCat or
@tumbleyoda type of reply. Just like some kids have more experience and stage ready skills, some gym owners have more experience and a "stage ready" public presence.
3. "Who here has felt personally victimized by Jersey All-Stars?"
@MaineStar234 I understand your position and I respect your feelings about teams being stacked for The Summit. But to everyone reading this, didn't we discuss at great length the measures that teams went to to ensure their teams success at The Summit last year? So by now we all know what has to be done in order to win at that event. Idk if that is what Jersey has up their pretty green sleeve or not, but it is certainly not a new idea.
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