For me... It's just like if you have a job: whole year:
You have 2 weeks vacation, 2 tardy days and 3 excused sick days.. Use em wisely.
After that, you accumulate demerits. 6 demerits off the squad. 3 is a parent meeting and negative impact on next years tryout score. no exceptions. (Demerits are also on a discipline order) Death of family, prolonged hospitalization, doctor referral are the only excuses and proof must be given. But other than that... That's all you get. That's for appointments, etc. you can even use those "sick days" as "personal days"... But I have a strict week before comp or rally absent is automatic 3 demerit.