To all the coaches that share athletes with other sports, is that really that common of a problem and do you have to allow it? Maybe since we are in a heavily sports driven area of the south, but this isn't a common problem here. It's pretty much expected by the time you get to high school you pick your sport. Kids know they better not ask their coach if they can be excused for another sports practice and if they do they should expect to be on JV or an alternate. Even in middle schools most kids start choosing their main sport to focus on. There are occasionally sports that don't interfere: soccer and softball for example, track and most anything else is another example. But many sports/activities here (cheerleading, dance, baseball, basketball, football, even band) is pretty much year round thing when you get to the high school level. I assumed this is how it was everyone or is this just a southern thing?