Out of curiosity, what happens if enough people don't feel "forced" into purchasing something that's not mandatory? I'm not a CA parent, but there are plenty of teams at our gym where parents don't contribute towards a gift and the team just doesn't get anything. I understand parents want gym owners to draw the financial line for them, but if it's not mandatory, they are allowing you to draw the line for yourself. In my experience, it's the kids and parents doing the pressuring for these added gifts, not the gym.