- Sep 10, 2014
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Help, I don't know what to do! My cp is in her 3rd year she is 10. She started with barely a walk-over and is now level 4. This was a lot of hard work and lots of gym time - but she is very passionate about the sport. This season has been a rocky start, she is only about 75 pounds and the bases are between 13 - 14 yrs. and complain that she is too heavy to lift, the smallest flyer is about 40 pounds. Now she has body image issues. She is very flexible and you wouldn't guess she is a flyer by her build (she is short and stocky) but she is strong and solid. But she was just replaced as her center flyer spot she held for over a year to a flyer that has very little experience. The reason the coach told her was the other flyer is taller, and "its the best decision for the team" but they put my daughter who is 4" shorter under her to base. I wouldn't have a problem with her being a base except she wasn't replace by a better flyer or because my daughter can't handle her position - since its a small gym we found out the real reason: the new flyer was my daughter's back spot and one day coming down my daughter's butt hit her face and the her mom went ballistic in the parent room stating that she is too small to base and she can only fly if she is going to be on this team. And then proceeded to lecture the coach. The next thing I know my child is basing this flyer. I feel like this is the last straw - Parents should not set policy and coaches should not lie to the cheerleaders?? My daughter knows the truth. I offered to put her in a large gym with a solid reputation that I think would help advance her skills, and where spots are given by skill and not politics. But she loves some of her teammates and is scarred she will not be noticed in the new gym. Any help and advice is truly welcomed.....