People are making these decisions out to be purely black and white. "Children's lives are more important than xxxxx". At a basic level, no kidding. However, acting like we don't make continuous risk/reward decisions that exist on a spectrum is disingenuous at best.
Russian roulette with a loaded gun would be on the incredibly foolish end of the risk/reward spectrum. Trusting that a plane won't randomly crash in your living room crushing your family is probably on the other. Most other decisions live somewhere in the middle. (Driving with your child in a car seat on the highway where there may be drunk drivers, letting your son play tackle football, only going to church 1 day a week, letting a kid try that full for the first time without a spot, etc.) There are few things won't fit into a quick oversimplified tweet or sentence condemning someone for choosing XXX over health/safety/wellbeing/eternal life/etc. Real life is more complicated and grey than that.
Most businesses can survive a short time, but very few can sustain a shutdown and loss of revenue for very long. We are currently closed, but I try to put myself in the shoes of other businesses that may fail if they completely cease operations. The bigger businesses may have more put aside, but they also have much bigger expenses eating into that "rainy-day fund". If customers aren't paying, there just isn't long-term money to pay employees. That happens more quickly than you would imagine - especially in the cheer gym business. Most businesses' margins are dramatically lower than what Karen-with-her-calculator thinks. That soon means employees with families lose their jobs (and usually health insurance). Massive unemployment and bankruptcies don't do wonders for our health care system or children's lives & wellbeing either.
I understand the desire to shame people for making a different decision than what you would personally make, but I would encourage everyone to try to cut people some slack in this crazy time. We don't know their specific situation and conditions. Part of the difficulty is the uncertainty of it all. If we knew that it could return to normal in 2 weeks, or a month, decisions would be easier. I have talked to many gym owners and we are pretty universally terrified about being closed for more than a couple of weeks and whether their gyms will survive that.
This isn't about any particular post or poster here - I have just seen this all over the place and had to vent.