oncecoolcoachnowmom
Bestest Newbie '14
- Mar 2, 2014
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I see people depleting their savings in order to keep up the facade of this cheer life and that can't be maintained indefinitely.
I don't think I thought too much about this until I became a parent myself.
Every financial and time commitment choice you make for cheer takes away from something else.
Example:
Bid chasing for cheer = bye bye to that family cruise your sister and brother in law are planning. You'll be chasing the bid at Cheersport. Even if you weren't, you couldn't afford it.
Back-to-back cheer comps = weekends away from other children at home with sitters or the one non-traveling parent (unless they're coming with you.)
3x per week of driving 2 hours each way to practice = Little Brother can't participate in basketball because there is no one to take him to practices. Or one parent has to be the one to take him.
Spending $x,000 per season on cheer = sorry other daughter, we can't afford that dance class you want.
Carpool and other duties each week = that mom's book club you SO want to be in? Nope! You are shuttling cheerleaders every other day. You have no time for your own interests.
Then there's little things like ACTUALLY SITTING DOWN FOR DINNER. How many times do you get to do that?
Being a parent has changed a lot about how I prioritize things and how I expect parents of kids I coach to prioritize things. Ex: I coach HS but I don't do emergency practice because I don't like the stress it puts on parents to rearrange life at the last minute. I certainly can't do that with my own kid (he's younger, but I wouldn't be dragging him out for an emergency tee ball practice.)