I guess it depends on the athlete.
Our old gym put teams together on what kids mostly had/ almost had/ could possibly have for competition. We got second to last at every competition. 4 of 5, 5 of 6, 6 of 7. We went to competitions hoping we didn't get last .. (Maybe we should of hoped for more since it seemed to be working and we just got 2nd to last instead lol) the gym is an amazing family atmosphere and had the same core returning athletes for many many years. For my daughter who was 5 and 6 at the time she was one of very few that seem to get frustrated and upset after every competition. Not that we thought they should of won but I felt like for her the fun was being sucked out of it. When we were there for me/ and my kid personally we focused more on my kid. It was all about her, what she had, what she was doing, what she could throw. We didn't feel like the team amounted to much as we weren't competitive so we just made her competitive with herself.
At our current gym they require you to have all skills to be placed on that team. It is very much stacking (as referred to here), we go to large competitions. We are not going to be competitive if we go out there and struggle to do certain skills. This is where my kid thrives. She enjoys having an amazing team, she enjoys knowing that no one kid is bringing the team down. She enjoys working hard and doesn't mind a hard practice, or a practice where she gets in trouble and has to run 100 laps. Trust me Jaylen did plenty of that our first year here lol. For Jaylen she cares less about what she can do now, who has what or why Susie didn't get her tick tock, and where she is in the routine and more about what her team looks like when performing, what changes can be made to make them better etc.
I think our gyms growth is because of that. They went from less then 100 athletes 3 seasons ago, to I believe topping 200 with the new teams just added last weekend.
On the other hand we do lose multiple athletes after tryouts due to team placements but usually have so many late comers coming in those kids were already replaced and we just had tryouts at the beginning of the month.
I will say for us, it took one season of unhappy placements (not what my kid wanted to be on) to realize so much as to why she was placed on the team she was.
Also want to say that season that began in question was such a huge life lesson to Jaylen.. She learned a lot. Cheer/skills related and personal things as well.
Eta: what
@quitthedrama posted about allowing kids to work on higher skills then what they are placed at no extra cost to the parent is brilliant. I think more people would be ok with this method, if they didn't have to pay for those stunt classes and tumble classes so my kid can use her skills while preparing for the next level!
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