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Thank you! I've been hanging out with all my friends lately and they all agree he's been acting strange for a while now. I just need to focus on me.
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Thank you! I've been hanging out with all my friends lately and they all agree he's been acting strange for a while now. I just need to focus on me.
- Apr 8, 2011
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unfortunately, i've been there and highly recommend reading "he's just not that into you" (followed by "it's called a breakup because it's broken.) The title may seem like a downer, but this book brought me nothing but good things. it's an eye-opener that helps you realize what you deserve - which is a whole lot more than this boy is giving you.
it's absolutely going to be hard. when i was in your shoes, i kept going back to the boy who hurt me, because i thought I loved him... and then one day everything just clicked. I realized that my incessant need to make him happy (when he was happiest without me) was making me miserable. and just like that, I told him he made me miserable and I've never looked back.
you'll get there, i promise <3
- Oct 10, 2011
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Maddie just got DESTROYED on Twitter tonight. Anyone else see it?
- Jun 23, 2010
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yep :/. I mean, Im not an avid fan but I don't hate the girl.
I think people forget that shes still a teenager.
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What hapened? Honestly, the girl left allstar. Let her move on!
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Thank you. I'll defenitly have to read them. Once he gets back in town I plan on meeting up with him and demanding answers
- Feb 28, 2010
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Seems like most of it was deleted but it was from an f5 fan account and basically revolved around the hashtag #TweetLikeMaddieGardner.
- Apr 15, 2011
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its pretty sad to see girls from fierceboard tweeting nasty things about her too. Espcially the ones you think are actually nice.................
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Okay y'all I need some advice.
There are more than 15 guys right now on the team, meaning cuts are going to be made, meaning my small self is not going to make the team if I don't get working. Every practice I'm stuck coed stunting (something I only learned how to properly do 3 weeks ago) with girls that are the same size as me who are clearly not meant to be in the air. The bigger, experienced guys all get the TINY girls. Now I see one side of this coin. The smaller girls and bigger guys will likely be together in the routine, so allow them to work the harder stuff that could actually be in the routine, but at the same time, I feel like sticking me with the big girls is basically saying "Neither of you are going to be on the team, so just have fun over there". I was stunting last night with one of the smaller, experienced girls and it was going SO well, but I don't want to go to practice on Tuesday and get some of the guys angry for taking their partners, but I also don't want to stick with the bigger girls who I'm barely able to toss to hands (even some of the bigger guys struggle with it) and completely erase my chances of making the final team...
There are more than 15 guys right now on the team, meaning cuts are going to be made, meaning my small self is not going to make the team if I don't get working. Every practice I'm stuck coed stunting (something I only learned how to properly do 3 weeks ago) with girls that are the same size as me who are clearly not meant to be in the air. The bigger, experienced guys all get the TINY girls. Now I see one side of this coin. The smaller girls and bigger guys will likely be together in the routine, so allow them to work the harder stuff that could actually be in the routine, but at the same time, I feel like sticking me with the big girls is basically saying "Neither of you are going to be on the team, so just have fun over there". I was stunting last night with one of the smaller, experienced girls and it was going SO well, but I don't want to go to practice on Tuesday and get some of the guys angry for taking their partners, but I also don't want to stick with the bigger girls who I'm barely able to toss to hands (even some of the bigger guys struggle with it) and completely erase my chances of making the final team...
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Please don't meet up with him and demand answers. It will just confirm to him why he isn't with you. I understand it's tough, but just move on.
- Jul 10, 2010
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I'm not literally gonna "demand answers" but I need to talk to him and if he's gonna just message me on Facebook and not actually talk to me like, over the phone at least then I just want to know why he's acting like that. I'm gonna try and do it in the nicest way possible (kill him with kindness). It may not be the smartest idea but there's no other way that this can be done in my mind.
- Oct 10, 2011
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Avoid ALL contact with him! The truth hurts, but get over him, he's done with you. There plenty of other fish in the sea.
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I know I should but I just need to settle this once and for all. I need to know why he's been acting the way he has been.
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Out of sight, out of mind. You need to cut this guy out of your life if he's causing you as much harm/pain as it seems. Meeting or even talking to him is making it a lot harder for you to stop thinking about him and moving on.
- Jul 10, 2010
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I'm sorry but not seeing him or talking to him is what is killing me most :/
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