- May 7, 2012
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I do agree about gyms making their own policies. I guess I am just being idealistic - and perhaps unrealistic - in what I would hope those policies would be, If you had asked me when I was in my 20s I absolutely would have said that if the coaches were off duty then it was their own time to do what they wanted. Even when my former-cp first started cheer and I was in my mid 30s, it did not bother me as much as it does now. Maybe it is because my oldest is now 17 and cp is 14, I see how impressionable many of these kids are with regards to their coaches. Coaches lead by example. I am no way saying they should not drink and have a good time, but maybe the aftermath should not be witnessed by the athletes they coach. And if that means that during a comp weekend they should not go out, get wasted and come back to the hotel for the kids to see, then so be it. And I am not saying that our coaches now do that; as a matter of fact I rarely even see our coaches at the hotel between the time the buses arrive and when the kids leave the hotel for the competition.Valid points and while I do agree with holding coaches to a higher standard at competitions, I still don't agree with ruling out alcohol for coaches altogether. I feel like alcohol related stuff is all situational. In the example you mentioned where coaches have taken responsibility for the child when a parent couldn't be there, I would hope that the coach would not be drinking at all. I would hope the gym has an alcohol policy amongst its coaches that includes things like that.
Unless the coach is breaking the law and alcohol is part of it, then I think alcohol policies should be left up to the gyms on what/when/where coaches can drink while "on duty". If laws are broken, let the authorities deal with it and then the USASF can take action. People may have different opinions than me on this and that's fine.
Question for those in favor of the no-alcohol-whatsoever-during-competition-weekends rule: what about the days of cheer related activities that aren't competitions? Camps, choreography, even practices. Should they not be able to drink during those times, too? Why or why not?