That's NOT a parent, it's an older sister, & it's not the gym teaching them that, so don't assume. Again, don't judge an entire team, or in your case, an entire gym by one or two that are misguided by older siblings. My daughter just showed me exactly where a child said that on IG, and as a parent of a child on that team, that's embarrassing, but don't think those kids are all taught that & certainly not by the gym. and face it, 3 others jump on because Fierce Board is a giant bandwagon, it's going to happen, especially if there is an opposing position on any subject. My only issue is that these are little youth age kids people are criticizing.