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I just think it'd be too easy for a guy to say they are a transgendered woman when they are really not so they can compete all girl.
That's quite extreme and quite a charade to keep up. And honestly offensive. I'd love to see even one example of this happening in sports before we start banning it because someone could be an awful enough person to try and do that.
I don't know, some people come up with pretty awful lies...a girl on my squad at school quit, an her reasoning was she couldn't make weekend practices because her grandfather was murdered and she had to be at home on the weekends to go to court hearings.
But how do you keep up with that lie? You literally have to not know a single person on your team. You can't go to school with them, you can't be friends with them on social networks. It's basically an impossible charade to keep up with, not just a one time lie.
Plus, one of the articles I linked to - the one that talks about the NCAA recommendations says the following:
"Further, the report says that fears of people switching genders for the purpose of winning spots on women's college teams are simply unrealistic. "[T]he decision to transition from one gender to the other -- to align one’s external gender presentation with one’s internal sense of gender identity -- is a deeply significant and difficult choice that is made only after careful consideration and for the most compelling of reasons," the report says.
Read more: http://www.insidehighered.com/news/2010/10/05/trans#ixzz2A20iDz00
Inside Higher Ed "
I don't think the team would have to be in the dark though...there are teams out there that knowingly put illegal athletes on the floor all the time. They would just see it as the same thing as lying about age.
Once upon a time, people thought being gay was a choice and you could catch AIDS from being friends with homosexuals. The amount of young gay people who commit suicide, are bullied, are ridiculed over their sexual "choice" and the public outpouring of support for them on the boards... and now this. How often does this board lament the existence of "cheerlebrities" and preach that one person doesn't make a team? Too many hypocrites. I don't care about your legal definitions, I don't care that you may lose to a team with one athlete who is struggling to reconcile their mind and their body. I don't care that one biological male who genuinely believes they are meant to be a woman is on an allgirl team. I care that a kid gets a chance to be a part of a community that values them for who they are and makes them feel like a human being when they may be ostracised in so many other areas of their life. There is no trophy, no award, no medal, banner or ring that is more important than that. And if you think otherwise, let me know and I'll make you a trophy out of plasticine and macaroni to replace the trophy you could have won if you didn't spend all your time worrying about the transgendered kid competing against you.
cupieqt Thank you for finding that! But holy crap, I can't believe that was 2 years ago. I'm getting old!
This discussion should not be about acceptance or the warm-fuzzy feelings we all get when we feel that we are trailblazing the path to acceptance of everyone. I think we've made it clear that if you have a beating heart, there's a place for you in competitive cheerleading. It is not a matter of whether we are allowing certain athletes to compete, it's about what we are letting those certain athletes compete AS and where that place is. And on a larger scale, I think the discussion is about where the line is drawn between accommodating personal interests of a handful of athletes without putting the THOUSANDS of other athletes, that the discussion does not apply to, at a disadvantage. Treating everyone the same does not mean that certain groups get special privileges.
And I don't know how to say this without offending, well.............everybody. But it's easy to say "It shouldn't matter because we are making somebody feel good!" But what about those athletes that work YEARS, and dedicate their entire lives to getting on a certain team, and then their senior year have to accept the fourth place participation medals b/c they competed fairly but dropped their flyer when they had to compete with teams that had bases under them who had 30% more muscle than the standard female athlete has? What about those athletes? What if your daughter was the one cut from the team because a coach wanted to play the system and put Pat in her spot so you can finally start smashing those cross town rivals! And where do you draw the line on numbers? Maybe this ISN'T just one athlete on a team. Maybe this is 4 or 5 athletes. And if you take the 4 or 5 BEST athletes off of the top small senior teams and replace them with average athletes, they are probably right in the middle of the pack type teams. That is 25% of the team. While we were busy trying not to offend a handful of athletes, we broke the hearts/dreams/and prevented the achievement of goals to thousands of others.