I know a few people, some cheerleaders included ...that a struggling A LOT mentally with the isolation. I know one that can’t even get out of bed, is used to seeing help regularly ... is starting to not respond to group chats. We are very worried. I had an old high school friend who I have not talked to in YEARS randomly reach out to me via Instagram direct message about how she just needed someone to talk to and was Having a hard time... and reached out to me (of all people) because of a conversation she remembered we had in a calculus class our senior year. People have too much time on their hands...not enough person to person socialization, things to keep them occupied and their brains busy and bustling- it’s concerning.
I agree with you saying it’s a circle and neither is sustainable. I think we keep thinking that “self isolation” is keeping us “Safe”... I guess I feel it’s just buying us more “time” in sort of a COVID Purgatory... and regardless of when we return to some form of freedom we will see a resurgence. This awful Virus will get who it wants to get, we have no control over who, when where-
...I agree with flattening the curve and not overwhelming the healthcare system and I also believe we are taking the measures we need to right now- but like you said, it’s unsustainable for too long. When that is... I don’t know - I guess that has to be measured on how long people and business can “hold up”...I think isolation going too far into May you’re going to see a very scary side of society.
I also agree the entire COUNTRY regardless of their outbreak status should have been on a shelter in place order for 4 weeks off the bat and all parks and recreational areas should have been immediately closed... I do think inconsistency is part of the problem. People are confused, don’t know what shelter in place means, don’t know who’s enforcing it- they see on TV some states are still doing life as usual... I look at it like how I run my team: I can’t tell kids to wear their hair in pony with a bow in their hair and not expect some to show up with their gold bow, white bow a low pony a high pony side part... some are asking my assistant coach how she wants it and others are asking their captains how they want it... if we all don’t collectively decide and inform: low slick backed pony, right part with gold skinny bow or you’re getting a demerit - you’re going to have chaos.
P.S. Camp in May is ridiculous to even say out loud right now.