What does it teach our kids? There is no "one size fits all" when it comes to gyms, and while the family and close knit atmosphere may be important to you, the more competitive atmosphere may be a better fit for others. And, while the small gym is working for you now, I encourage you to be "Switzerland" in your discussions. Kids that desire their hard work to translate into success is as normal as the kid that just wants to meet new friends. In other words, you may find one day while you are enjoying your much loved Panera, your child may say they want to try Subway.