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I may be completely alone on this but....

I personally don't have an issue with him. He has never said anything controversial/inappropriate/rude to ME personally. I have no bad blood with him, even though some of you do from your interactions with him on here. He has been following me on instagram for a few months now and if he was saying or doing things that I felt uncomfortable with, I would've blocked him. Is it weird that he comes on here proclaiming his love of feet? Yes. Is it out of place? Yes. Is it wrong to focus on underage athletes and their shoes? Yes. But I think people have to remember he's also just a person. He approached me again yesterday, basically asking what he did wrong on here and how he can fix it. I think he's truly gotten everyone's point and he understands that people will have his perceptions of him but I just don't feel right judging him when he hasn't done anything to me.

Do you think that his responses are genuine? To me, they are totally creepy. They are not things a normal person would say, or not in a way a normal person would say them. It's a very scary and eerie, and I have to question WHY a normal adult would be upset that he cannot interact with underage athletes.
 
I may be completely alone on this but....

I personally don't have an issue with him. He has never said anything controversial/inappropriate/rude to ME personally. I have no bad blood with him, even though some of you do from your interactions with him on here. He has been following me on instagram for a few months now and if he was saying or doing things that I felt uncomfortable with, I would've blocked him. Is it weird that he comes on here proclaiming his love of feet? Yes. Is it out of place? Yes. Is it wrong to focus on underage athletes and their shoes? Yes. But I think people have to remember he's also just a person. He approached me again yesterday, basically asking what he did wrong on here and how he can fix it. I think he's truly gotten everyone's point and he understands that people will have his perceptions of him but I just don't feel right judging him when he hasn't done anything to me.

I find his lack of understanding to be a bit unnerving. I don't judge him because of his preferences, we all have our different things that make us tick, but it's the fact that he feels that what he does is appropriate. He doesn't think that his comments are out-of-place and should never be made to a minor, he doesn't understand that his public claims are not really something that should be made public, and he doesn't understand that his love of feet isn't what should be defining him in this industry. If he wanted to come on here, learn about cheer, talk about cheer, he could have done that, but he didn't, and he continues to not do that on Twitter and on Instagram, and the fact that he doesn't know the consequences of what he's doing and doesn't understand what's wrong about what he's doing leads me to believe there truly is something wrong with him. It is not wrong to have a foot fetish or to be sexually aroused by feet, it's actually extremely common and should not be considered dangerous, but it's how he's going about satisfying that sexual desire, and his lack of understanding of basic human morals, that puts people off, even if they have not personally been approached/contacted/whatever verb you wanna put here by him.
 
chyeeaaa69 this is exactly what I pointed out to him.

Here's the exchange, you may judge how you'd like, I'm just posting it so everyone can see and take their own view on it.
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I just don't feel right judging him when he hasn't done anything to me.

To make a point:

So you don't feel right judging Adolf Hitler because he hasn't done anything to you?

Charles Manson?
John Wayne Gacy?
Jeff Gillooly? (ok, so this one is a stretch)

While you may not feel right yet, as parents, we HAVE to judge people before they do anything to us or to those we love. Or, in this case, just maybe, to those on this board we feel an obligation to protect.

No one has a right to post on this board. It's a privilege and the bar to maintain that privilege should be very high.
 
To make a point:

So you don't feel right judging Adolf Hitler because he hasn't done anything to you?

Charles Manson?
John Wayne Gacy?
Jeff Gillooly? (ok, so this one is a stretch)

While you may not feel right yet, as parents, we HAVE to judge people before they do anything to us or to those we love. Or, in this case, just maybe, to those on this board we feel an obligation to protect.

No one has a right to post on this board. It's a privilege and the bar to maintain that privilege should be very high.
I understand your point and I agree with it. I suppose putting a blanket over the subject and generalizing it that way was the wrong way to put it.
 
To make a point:

So you don't feel right judging Adolf Hitler because he hasn't done anything to you?

Charles Manson?
John Wayne Gacy?
Jeff Gillooly? (ok, so this one is a stretch)

While you may not feel right yet, as parents, we HAVE to judge people before they do anything to us or to those we love. Or, in this case, just maybe, to those on this board we feel an obligation to protect.

No one has a right to post on this board. It's a privilege and the bar to maintain that privilege should be very high.

It is a talent to be able to seamlessly add Jeff Gillooly into the same list as Hitler, Charles Manson, and John Wayne Gacy.. :p
 
Do you think that his responses are genuine? To me, they are totally creepy. They are not things a normal person would say, or not in a way a normal person would say them. It's a very scary and eerie, and I have to question WHY a normal adult would be upset that he cannot interact with underage athletes.

to add to this... if i came on the boards and started a thread about my interest in... idk what to say to avoid getting myself into trouble :p haha but if i came on the boards to discuss anything that sexually aroused me 1. that'd just be weird, 2. i'd be kicked off immediately talking about those things to minors. it's pedophelia. (ps is that a word? spell check flagged it)

but because he likes cheer shoes some people shrugged it off or giggled about it. this man is sexually aroused by shoes and started a thread asking for pictures of shoes and feet. that's his equivalent to porn. while it may seem harmless (and maybe it is) there is NO place for that on a board about cheerleading, which is essentially a youth sport, and on a board where minors regularly post. he can take it over to some fetish board. but not here.

not to mention i've watched entirely too much law and order SVU and his child-like demeanor scares me. and as CoachTamara stated how upset he is over this is not normal.
 
Preach njallday! Exactly my point. A fetish is something that you get sexual pleasure from. I do not see him on here or twitter asking the moms for pictures of their shoes or feet. He is only contacting the girls. I watched a whole convo all day today on twitter where he kept trying to say that his intentions weren't to harm anyone. However he doesn't see anything wrong with constantly trying to befriend these young girls.

Also why so many usernames and telling people different ages? If he is so proud of who he is then come out with who you really are. He has gone by fetishman80, cheerlover80, cheerlover88, nice_guy92 and some also think this ca_kayleee not to mention the multiple ones he has had on here. By the way, do a google search for fetishman80.

This guy is manipulative and is trying to groom these girls.
 
Preach njallday! Exactly my point. A fetish is something that you get sexual pleasure from. I do not see him on here or twitter asking the moms for pictures of their shoes or feet. He is only contacting the girls. I watched a whole convo all day today on twitter where he kept trying to say that his intentions weren't to harm anyone. However he doesn't see anything wrong with constantly trying to befriend these young girls.

Also why so many usernames and telling people different ages? If he is so proud of who he is then come out with who you really are. He has gone by fetishman80, cheerlover80, cheerlover88, nice_guy92 and some also think this ca_kayleee not to mention the multiple ones he has had on here. By the way, do a google search for fetishman80.

This guy is manipulative and is trying to groom these girls.
Wish you hadn't said that and made me curious enough to do it.
 
Preach njallday! Exactly my point. A fetish is something that you get sexual pleasure from. I do not see him on here or twitter asking the moms for pictures of their shoes or feet. He is only contacting the girls. I watched a whole convo all day today on twitter where he kept trying to say that his intentions weren't to harm anyone. However he doesn't see anything wrong with constantly trying to befriend these young girls.

Also why so many usernames and telling people different ages? If he is so proud of who he is then come out with who you really are. He has gone by fetishman80, cheerlover80, cheerlover88, nice_guy92 and some also think this ca_kayleee not to mention the multiple ones he has had on here. By the way, do a google search for fetishman80.

This guy is manipulative and is trying to groom these girls.

that is the most terrifying thing i have ever seen....oh...my...gosh...can i unsee that please?
 
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