CharlotteASMom
Cheer Parent
- Mar 23, 2010
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Loved reading this thread!
After reading all your input I've come to the conclusion that sandbagging/stacking will be common until the whole industry sees it as silly. Why do kids want to compete lower than their ability to get the win? Because we give praise to that.
As a soccer mom I can say that no kid would want to drop 2-3 levels to be on a winning team. They'd rather be on the highest that they are capable of even if it's a mediocre team. The only exception would be ECNL/Academy kids that can't afford the amount of travel these teams require and therefore request to be dropped. I've also seen a kid or two ask to go one team lower because of friends or that they work better with that group. But never 2-3 levels!
Last year a friend of my daughter was just starting soccer and asked her to play on an independent rec team with her. My daughter said no because she thought it wasn't right. Her reasoning was it wouldn't be fair because she'd obviously be far more skilled than everyone else. She even commented that it would actually hurt the other kids by leaning on her to make the plays instead of figuring it out themselves.
Many people hate the other sport comparisons to cheer but the value of a win or loss translates pretty well.
The Fierce Board App! || iPhone || Android
After reading all your input I've come to the conclusion that sandbagging/stacking will be common until the whole industry sees it as silly. Why do kids want to compete lower than their ability to get the win? Because we give praise to that.
As a soccer mom I can say that no kid would want to drop 2-3 levels to be on a winning team. They'd rather be on the highest that they are capable of even if it's a mediocre team. The only exception would be ECNL/Academy kids that can't afford the amount of travel these teams require and therefore request to be dropped. I've also seen a kid or two ask to go one team lower because of friends or that they work better with that group. But never 2-3 levels!
Last year a friend of my daughter was just starting soccer and asked her to play on an independent rec team with her. My daughter said no because she thought it wasn't right. Her reasoning was it wouldn't be fair because she'd obviously be far more skilled than everyone else. She even commented that it would actually hurt the other kids by leaning on her to make the plays instead of figuring it out themselves.
Many people hate the other sport comparisons to cheer but the value of a win or loss translates pretty well.
The Fierce Board App! || iPhone || Android