Think about how much she gained in life lessons and character, how to conduct herself with dignity, class and respect for others. Definitely how NOT to act when you're caught out or things don't go your way. She knows first hand how hard it is to correct skills so the likelihood of her getting impatient and rushing progression, increasing risk of injury, isn't going to happen (although your coaches sound like they're all over perfection before progression). If she has an innate talent for the sport it's probably given her a bit of humility and understanding/patience for those who struggle with skills. I have LOVED all the aviator videos that you've posted, that gym's got heart. The cheer dad and his son makes me all blinky. Still sucks that you spent three years of time and money with a batshizzle cray-cray woman ;)