thats exactly what I'm saying. a young teenager who posts a picture in a swimsuit or a uniform is not asking to be brutally attacked, harrassed, abused, stalked, etc by pedophiles that are more than triple her age. she isn't asking to not be able to have an intimate relationship because she cries when anyone tries to touch her. she is not asking for decades of therapy and recovery. she is not asking for people like you to tell her she deserved it. she is not asking for a trial where she will be asked "what were you wearing? were you drinking? are you sure it was him? are you sure you didn't give consent?" she isn't asking for it. nobody asks to be raped. how about we teach men to control themselves instead of teaching girls to hide their bodies?