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[Cheermom1969]

And here we go in 3, 2, 1...

 

[cheermomforever]

Omg I have no words for the last post. That IS what we r saying. No one is looking to get attacked!

 

[Fierce_Elite]

I have yet to find a person, male or female, that WANTS to be raped.

Any response to my previous question about the Muslim woman?

things that goes on in the Muslim religion where the women get raped, is because of law I have Muslim women in my family... before you people even go there, I'm not saying rape is apart of the law in the muslim religion.

 

[Hodiestoe]

So what ya'll are saying is this, a girl who's all over social media posting completely nude photos knowing they're men out there who like to rape and hurt women isn't asking for that happen? That's crazy.

That's exactly it. Is she stupid for doing it-yes! Is she providing fodder for men and women (lets not be sexist!) to *achem*pleasure*achem* themselves with-yes. Is she saying "come find me and rape me-NO, categorically NO!!!


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[Fierce_Elite]

That's exactly it. Is she stupid for doing it-yes! Is she providing fodder for men and women (lets not be sexist!) to *achem*pleasure*achem* themselves with-yes. Is she saying "come find me and rape me-NO, categorically NO!!!


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but she knows she's making her self more of a target. So basically, yes.

 

[SoAena]

Honestly, I know that I may have had said some poor commentary thoughts on some threads, including my own. However, one thing I think we can all agree upon, is that I have never once called ANYONE out of their name and I think the vast majority of you who commented on my comment, should give me an apology and I promise you my whole "aggressiveness' will go away.

You stated yet again that there are people who ask to be sexually assaulted, yet you don't see how people could feel that you're asking for trouble on the boards ?

I personnally tried to engage in conversation with you at least twice since you signed up (one of which is in this thread). I haven't been mean, sarcastic or anything. You never answered. You've ignored quite a few people when they raised points that did not seem to be going your way. Probably too busy complaining that everyone here is against you and how unfair it is...

So what ya'll are saying is this, a girl who's all over social media posting completely nude photos knowing they're men out there who like to rape and hurt women isn't asking for that happen? That's crazy.

No one is saying that it is a wise thing to do (in fact,in my opinion, it would be really stupid). But rape is non consensual by definition, therefore it cannot be asked for !

 

[vannahlexis]

So what ya'll are saying is this, a girl who's all over social media posting completely nude photos knowing they're men out there who like to rape and hurt women isn't asking for that happen? That's crazy.

YES! That is EXACTLY what we are saying. NO ONE deserves to be forced into sex without their consent.

Being nude is NOT an invitation to be sexually violated.

Myself and other women/men should NOT have to base our wardrobes of choice because someone "likes to rape and hurt people". They should be imprisoned. NOTHING they are doing is okay by any means.

I was out the other night wearing jeans and a t-shirt. Completely covered, from head to toe, and someone I don't know harassed me. Though it is not on the same scale as rape by any means, I was absolutely shocked and disgusted with the person. Should I not go out anymore, because there are people that like to do this to fully clothed women, too?

 

[Cheer Dad]

things that goes on in the Muslim religion where the women get raped, is because of law I have Muslim women in my family... before you people even go there, I'm not saying rape is apart of the law in the muslim religion.

I'm sorry but I'm not understanding your answer. Can you try saying that again?

 

[Pebbles49]

Hey @Fierce_Elite, I am going to use your analogy that if a victim dress a certain way, that you are asking to be Rape to You keep posting these dumb, sick and off the-wall ideas, you are asking us Fierceboarders to attack you...
Your defense is, we are wrong for attacking your ideas and you have a right to an opinion, right!
But we feel the same way about you keep shoveling this crap about Victims are to blame for Perverts committing crimes against them... Do you get it now! We have a right to be offended and to write our opinions too...

PS: If you want us Fierceboarders to stop and desist, you must stop and desist too, since you keep starting this fight!
I am going to warn you, I have all day and night, plus a dictionary to fight this crusade against such rubbish being tossed around on Fierce Board...:mad:

 

[dawgshow]

things that goes on in the Muslim religion where the women get raped, is because of law I have Muslim women in my family... before you people even go there, I'm not saying rape is apart of the law in the muslim religion.

What of Muslim women raped by those outside of the faith?
BTW, saying "...where the women get raped is because of the law" does in fact say that it is " (a part) of the law in the Muslim religion". They are nearly identical statements. It may not be what you meant but those are the words you typed.

 

[Cheer Dad]

What of Muslim women raped by those outside of the faith?
BTW, saying "...where the women get raped is because of the law" does in fact say that it is " (a part) of the law in the Muslim religion". They are nearly identical statements. It may not be what you meant but those are the words you typed.

The wording is confusing me. Hoping she can elaborate for me.

 

[TealShades]

Honestly, I know that I may have had said some poor commentary thoughts on some threads, including my own. However, one thing I think we can all agree upon, is that I have never once called ANYONE out of their name and I think the vast majority of you who commented on my comment, should give me an apology and I promise you my whole "aggressiveness' will go away.

Nobody called you out BY your name. We don't even know your name. Unless it's Tiffany.

 

[sarahh_cheers]

Because every time I come on here, whether or not I say something argumentative or wrong, I always get attacked and get called bad names. And it really hurts just because I have different opinions. I'm not really trying to put the blame on victims, but there are SOME people females and males who do ask for it. I'm not wrong for thinking that.

well actually, you are wrong for thinking that. horribly wrong.

 

[Hodiestoe]

but she knows she's making her self more of a target. So basically, yes.

You're really not getting it are you! So a woman posts nude pictures on Instagram, let's say she's in her own home when the pics are taken. How does that give ANYONE the right to find her and rape her? There is a growing trend of naturalists, if they post pictures about their everyday nude life in an online way where they think it's protected, and they get out, are they asking for it also? The silly teenage girl who sends her boyfriend a nude snapchat, only for it to be distributed all around the school. Is she asking for it???

Look at the statistics of rape; most are everyday people going about their normal lives wearing their normal everyday clothes. The vast majority of all rape is in this manner. What you are not grasping is; for the rapist, it's all about domination and power. He (usually he) gets off on the process of stalking/capturing/subduing the victim. The actual act of penetration is last in the list of things and is the final step; it's all the previous steps that 'excite' him. Where is the excitement in someone who is perceived to be 'easy' or 'asking for it'?


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[cheermomof4]

Once I suggested we don't argue with a fool and I got a three paragraph pm telling me I was basically a bully, but I still think it's good advice. ;)

it's great advice because let's face it- the only thing certain people want is to stir the pot and get people riled up- it's how they get their kicks......and we all know if you ignore them they will turn in to that child who sits there and says "mommy" repeatedly until you finally snap and say "WHAT?" and then they wave at you and say "HI" and then run off laughing......

back to the topic however, I know people who have been raped- and no matter what the circumstances are- they do NOT deserve nor are they asking for it. Believe me- and once it does happen- not only are they physically scarred, but emotionally as well and it will haunt them for the rest of their life. Do they deserve to have a panic attack every time they smell or see something that brings them back to that awful moment in their life? Rape/ Sexual assault is nothing that anyone asks for or deserves- EVER...... Sorry for getting on a soapbox- I just can't deal with ignorance