All-Star I'm Done Apologizing And Being The Bad The Bad Person

[Cheer Dad]

Oh mama, so many responses but not so many appropriate for this section, ;)

 

[gofriars610]

 

[Carson92]

Fierce_elite,

You also must realize that people told you MULTIPLE times that they are not as knowledgable in the area of dance and/or about the questions you had...and their suggestions to other boards were only to direct you to an area that might be able to better answer your needs.

When you snapped at the people who tried to help and not "mock" you, it's really difficult for both those people and observers of the posts to want to "back you up".

Don't bite the hand that feeds.

 

[dawgshow]

Not rude at all.

 

[ACEDAD]

I have to be honest and let you know many of your posts were over the top defensive. If you feel someone is truly harassing you, PM one of the Admins.

Much luck to you in your cheer/dance endeavors.

And Weezy has honed her defensive skills on years of uniform threads, so she knows defensive!

 

[Carson92]

The only reason I like this thread is that I have collected some great new .gifs and memes for the future.

Thank you, FB!

 

[cheerforeverever]

Welcome to life, where it is not always sugar coated magical cheer sparkles. People are going to disagree with you. People are going to be sarcastic. People are going to flat out tell you their opinion & be straightforward when they think you are incorrect on something. People are going to give their opinions and fight for them. Everything is not a "personal attack". There have been many, many fierceboarders that have started up questionable threads....this was not the first, nor will it be the last time that it happens. Take the criticism with a grain of salt and learn from it.

I challenge you to read but not respond for 2 weeks on the boards. Try to understand the expectations of the board and why we get frustrated with threads posted at times.

 

[mstealtoyou]

You mentioned you didn't think sarcasm had any place on a board like this one. This is a sarcastic place. Maybe this is not the place for you.

2 of us googled dance message boards for you, to try and help you find a place who could answer your dance questions. Most of our user's have no extensive knowledge on the dance community.

You were banned because you threatened the board.....that is a huge no no. Had you joined us and lurked around for 6 months or so you would have learned that. During your catfish thread you were warned about cursing. Cursing and threatening the board are the 2 major reason's you'll get banned here. If you're planning to stay around, it's important you know that.

Contrary to what you believe, people here have been very selective about what they've actually typed to you.

I can't help but feel punked about this whole situation. Makes me sad.

 

[CharlotteASMom]

@Fierce_Elite

I defended you early on when you were posting. I don't regret doing that but I am sad you didn't stop for a moment and take the advice that many of the more calm, reasonable posters have given you.

@ACEDAD , @Weezy, and @Cheer Dad have given you thoughtful, fair, and sound advice in this thread. Please stop for a moment and review what they've said. This can be a great place to learn and debate issues but you can't keep being so defensive. Like ACEDAD said sometimes you just need to stop.

 

[NJ Coach]

And this is what I come home from vacation to....I just can't leave any of you alone :rolleyes:

 

[Cheer Dad]

And this is what I come home from vacation to....I just can't leave any of you alone :rolleyes:

You are welcome for the entertainment.

 

[quitthedrama]

So one poster doesn't like sarcasm and the entire culture of the board must change?

 

[flcheermom]

You mentioned you didn't think sarcasm had any place on a board like this one. This is a sarcastic place. Maybe this is not the place for you.

2 of us googled dance message boards for you, to try and help you find a place who could answer your dance questions. Most of our user's have no extensive knowledge on the dance community.

You were banned because you threatened the board.....that is a huge no no. Had you joined us and lurked around for 6 months or so you would have learned that. During your catfish thread you were warned about cursing. Cursing and threatening the board are the 2 major reason's you'll get banned here. If you're planning to stay around, it's important you know that.

Contrary to what you believe, people here have been very selective about what they've actually typed to you.

I can't help but feel punked about this whole situation. Makes me sad.

I think it's more of someone "trolling" I did some reading about it - a certain someone fits a lot of the examples given such as -– Classic Troll Tactic Number 5: When all else fails, claim to be leaving forever. Trolls who claim they are leaving never do, of course; you can bet that anyone who proclaims, "I'm never coming back here," will most certainly at least check back for responses, and probably will not be able to resist posting again.

 

[Keep_Believing]

@Fierce_Elite , Serious question: if you feel harassed and bullied why do you continue to get on fb ? Getting on the board is a choice.

 

[12stepCheermom]

Wait a second. If I was @12stepCheermom, I'd be seriously irked right now.

Man...one minute I'm sub-boarded and the next forgotten. There's no justice in the world.