i'm sure you meant no harm in your comment! i personally just think a lot of people don't realize that saying someone looks too thin can feel just as hurtful to that person as it does when you call someone else fat. i'm naturally thin & have been that way my whole life. i know that i'm healthy, i'm just blessed with a high metabolism...so it drives me crazy when i get the occasional "go eat a donut" or "you're too skinny, we need to fatten you up" comments. please don't take this as an attack on you! i just quoted you as my jumping off point to make a general statement.