First post, but have been lurking for a looong time :)
I base and backspot on Level 4 All-Girl, mainly backspot. A couple of days ago at practice, my flyer fell out of a one-leg extension stunt forward and landed on the floor, on her elbows. We got yelled at for dropping our flyer and extra push-ups. I felt really bad about it, obviously.
My specific question is this: as a backspot, when my flyer is falling forward, away from me, how in the hell am I supposed to catch her safely, without injuring myself or her? That is a serious question by the way.
I have some more general musings, on whether the whole 'OMG you should never ever not ever let your flyer touch the ground before you or you are the worst cheerleader in the entire world' is over-the-top (unrealistic? unhelpful?). Personally, I think it is slightly off-putting to new bases/backspots. I'm just interested in what other people think, and I'm not looking to start a fight club. I've never flown, so it would be cool to hear a flyer's perspective.