I'm familiar with how reality television is manipulated. HOWEVER the footage they showed of her tantrum, in particular the statement where she was like 'NO I HAVE TO ORGANIZE' would send off a red flag with any educator (like myself), parent, psychiatrist etc because it was an atypical statement for a 9 yr old to make.
Unless you're saying that line was spoon fed to her by producers?
Ditto for her coming off stage and the look of horror in her eyes while stating that AL was going to kill her.
Just come back in 5-10-15 years and then reassure us that all of these kids are fine.