This is probably going to stir the pot, but I doubt any of you are surprised that I tend to do that..
Although I think the party may have gotten out of hand, do you really think any of what you're saying is going to help? My parents may tell me they think I drink too much, but does that thought stop me from pouring that next shot? No. If I want to go out and drink I will, and ESPECIALLY if I was in the situation that those athletes are. And don't tag this to bad parenting, I have two amazing parents, but at a certain point in your life, you begin to make your own decisions, your own mistakes, control your own actions and thoughts without any concern for your upbringing. Many hold on to the lessons their parents taught them, all of them, and abide by strict rules in their lives. Many also listen to some of the rules their parents tell them, but have decided that at their age they are equipped enough to decide for themselves how they'd like to act, and some just go out and say "YOLO" (and I don't approve of anyone seriously using the expression YOLO to justify anything) and do things that are downright stupid and probably dangerous. Although I do know that there is much proof to say that a child's upbringing influences their actions, I truly believe that nowadays friends, social media, school, etc. have more to do with how a kid acts than parenting does, so you can stop with the parenting comments.
It's just a fact that most teenagers will do what they want regardless of what you tell them, regardless of how much you come on the Fierce Board and b**** about how people got out of control at this event, or how cheerleaders need to stop drinking, or anything like that, people will continue to drink. Shocked? I'd be surprised. Am I saying "just let them do it, it's gonna happen anyways?" no, but coming on here and bitching about it is doing nothing.
I'll tell you the way I've learned some of the hardest lessons I've ever had to learn. It was by my parents letting me make a mistake. I knew there were consequences to my actions, my parents never let me forget that, but I did stupid things and the consequences were enforced. It's part of the reason I've never cheered allstar. If you're a gym owner and you are going to kick people out of the gym for such actions, tell them that WILL happen (not MIGHT happen), and follow through if they break the rules. You're a parent? Come up with your own consequences, and STICK TO IT. THAT IS HOW PEOPLE LEARN. I'm not trying to tell you how to run your gym, or how to parent your child, but coming from a teenager's point of view, witnessing many of my friends' interactions with their parents, comparing it to my own, I can tell you that some of the comments you guys are making make it seem like you're going about it the complete wrong way to be effective.