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[Keep_Believing]

I agree! @King do you want to lock this thread?

 

[Fierce_Elite]

I'm not a bad person. I refuse to allow you all to continue to tell that I am. Just because I have different views on the subject.

 

[dawgshow]

I'm not a bad person. I refuse to allow you all to continue to tell that I am. Just because I have different views on the subject.

You may not be a bad person (reserving judgment on that) but your beliefs about this are bad. Reprehensible actually.

 

[ashscott41]

@Fierce_Elite you're allowed to have an opinion, but it's statistically been proven to be wrong. Sexual assault is not about sex. It is about power and control. Here are some resources for you to better educate yourself. If you still cannot see why you are wrong after reading these facts, I give up. Common misconceptions about rape Sexual Violence Myths: Provocative Clothing Is A Risk Factor -ConsentEd http://www.uwlax.edu/urc/JUR-online/PDF/2011/eddy.sandor.PSY.pdf

 

[darlingsmomx4]

I was recently on a popular cheerleaders facebook page. I like to try and keep up some because my two CP's follow her. Several grown men ,most looked to be in their 40's and 50's, made very inappropriate comments on her pictures. It made my stomach turn. I clicked on a few of their profiles (they were not private). They appeared to be "family" men with descent jobs. One listed himself as a youth minister. I am beyond disturbed. I am tempted to contact friends and family from their friend's list to warn them of the type of comments these men are making and that they should not be allowed around children/youth. I also noticed most of the inappropriate comments end up getting deleted. It is good they are deleted, but these perverted men need to be exposed.

My older daughters posted a picture of my 5 year old in her cheer uniform because she just got it last week on their Instagram account. My daughter came to my because a 40-50 year old man made comments on how cute and sexy her tummy was... (Which is reason we need mesh I guess). I had them report them, pull the picture down... That is just crazy and sick!

 

[sarahh_cheers]

I'm not a bad person. I refuse to allow you all to continue to tell that I am. Just because I have different views on the subject.

but what you don't understand is that your "opinions" are supporting misogyny and rape culture. I can't believe people still think the way you do. its disgusting.

 

[mstealtoyou]

I agree! @King do you want to lock this thread?

He can if he feel's it's warranted but the problem will still be here, starting or posting on controversial subjects.


I have to go to work. Y'all be good until after 10 pm.

 

[SoAena]

He can if he feel's it's warranted but the problem will still be here, starting or posting on controversial subjects.


I have to go to work. Y'all be good until after 10 pm.

It's after 10 PM for me ! Does it count ?

 

[Cheer Dad]

I'm not a bad person. I refuse to allow you all to continue to tell that I am. Just because I have different views on the subject.

Curious if your view on this is religious based or General up bringing? Do your parents feel the same way?

Regardless of why you think this way I have a scenario question which is based on real events.

If a Muslim woman is raped while wearing traditional clothing, covered head to toe, was she asking for it to happen?

 

[TealShades]

I thought "Tiffany" was gone for good like her own doing. I was like yes finally but she was just banned again. I guess I missed something.

 

[Fierce_Elite]

I'm not stupid. It makes no sense so use "Tiffany" when I know you're talking about me. Again, childish.

 

[CaliChar]

In the picture that had several awful comments, it was a close up. All you could see were her shoulders and face. You couldn't see her midsection or legs. The comments were perverted because these men are perverted. It had nothing to do with what she was wearing.

THIS. It's NEVER about what somebody is wearing. It's about how a sex offender views somebody, not about how much skin they show.

 

[EricaElite]

I feel like if you tell a woman to dress or act differently so she won't be sexually harassed, you're really just telling her to make sure she isn't the one that's going to be sexually harassed, like 'make sure the rapist picks the other girl, not you'

 

[12stepCheermom]

Welcome to Trollville: population 1

 

[Keep_Believing]

Spider's story :

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I am sharing this for over all awareness. Sexual abuse and harassment don't discriminate. My guess is he wore jeans and t shirts.