I think us women would be surprised how many men feel the same way as
@FamousxMindset. My husband doesn't have a problem with "stage make up" but, he does have some issues with the total package at times (make up, hair, uniform and dance moves). He feels women just forget, or are in denial, that men are hardwired differently and said he is far from the only dad that feels, on occasion, the total package is in conflict with what they feel is age appropriate.
As far as, your analogy FamousxMindset, it was
far from offensive, my child has gone through chemo twice (catastrophic blood disorder not cancer). In group therapy sessions (oncology/hematology) we talked about the people that tiptoed around us, not the ones that sympathized and empathized with us. Those that get all offended and defensive at the mention of cancer, rape, death, etc. or analogies about them, hinder the healing process. You are absolutely correct, you don't have to have cancer to know it's horrible, nor do you have to have kids to know how you would like to raise them.