Yes, that's what it's supposed to look like when its done healing and I change the
earrings. He pierced my ear with small curved barbells... he told me he couldn't pierce with the diamonds so I have to wait for it to heal and switch it in. Depending on where you go to get it pierced, they may just pierce it with the diamonds. The guy who pierced it was... less than professional. But to answer your questions: The pain... well, lets put it this way: this was my first piercing. EVER. And I did all three at once. So i kinda really psyched myself out before I even layed down. When he was actually doing it, I didn't feel that much pain, it just felt super hot and numb. Then on the last one, it didn't go all the way through so he had to wait for it to stop bleeding and go through again. That's when the pain hit, although it wasn't overwhelming (for me.) I know for a fact that if the friends I went with got it done instead of me, they would've cried (they all got their belly buttons done and all whined about it). It just depends on your pain tolerance. It cost me $80; at the studio I went to, it's basically $40 per piercing and if you get 3, then the third ones free (cuz who really gets pierced three times at once? Not many people.) If you're really interested in it, then I would def call ahead and ask to talk to the piercer. Ask if they can pierce with the diamonds, ask if they have the sizes in stock, and ask about the price.
The only thing that sucked for me was cleaning it. Because instead of cleaning just one piercing, you have three to do. And I'm really lazy. But the cleaning part probably hurt the most out of everything. The ones closer to your actual face are harder to clean and you kinda have to push the earring out of the way to get to it, which hurt a lot. In all honesty though, it wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be and it's fine now. I'm just waiting for it to heal completely so I can put the diamond earrings in. I can't wait for that day!